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In fact, in four out of the five relationships I've been in, I have been the one to initiate the break up. In five other instances, I have seriously liked a person, but they were not interested. And cue the onslaught of thoughts about how pathetic I am for trying so many times and failing.
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Aw, cts, you blame yourself if the guy isn't interested and you also blame yourself if you are not interested. The common theme is to blame yourself.
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It sounds like you have an enormous amount of hurt from your family and/or childhood. I know that people here would support you if you were to speak further about that here.
Are you seeing a therapist and if yes have you been looking at family and at relationships with her/him?