She is definitely trying to guilt me and then the other day i was trying to tell her about job openings and she's like "don't worry about me!". The next day the topic comes up again and i try to explain how i feel about it and she shuts me down closes my door and goes to her room! She ALWAYS cuts me off and walks away. It makes me soooo mad!!! They just cut her hours down at work so I'm thinking of helping her but at the same time I'm so pissed and I just can't wait to get hell out her house!!
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Thanks, Stabbed With Words is my post. I'd suggest you only give your mother if you want to and only what you feel comfortable with.
With me, I feel financially able to help her and I told her I am only committing to do it for a year and then we'll see how it goes. My mother is 80 and I guess I am keeping her more comfortable than forcing her to deal with the harsh reality of having outlived her money. Your situation sounds like your mother is just guilting you into sharing the wealth. Many lottery winners have gone broke because their family and friends coerced them into doing the same.
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