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Old Jan 06, 2016, 06:56 AM
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Is there any part of you that does not believe her when she says this? That is, do you feel, for any reason, like your T really does actually need to be right?

And if you do feel that way: Do you think it is about your need to have your T be an infallible authority? Or is it she who sends subtle or conflicting messages about not tolerating your disagreement and needing to be right in spite of her protestations to the contrary?
I have never felt this way with her. When it happens it is because we are discussing something where I need to make a difficult decision.. I know what she is recommending is what I need to do go me and my family. However, I can't actually do it because of my fears, not wanting to hurt others, etc. She seems to know once I work through the issues I eventually am able to follow through.
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