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Originally Posted by laxer12
There were a couple of instances where my T said something and I said, "yeah, you're right" (because I agreed with her) and I was surprised with her reaction. She said something along the lines of, "Full disclosure, it makes me uncomfortable when you say that. I'm not trying to be right and I don't want you to feel like you need to agree with everything I say". When she said that, she actually made me uncomfortable which I know was not the intent but I appreciated her response.
It seems like T's really want us to come up with our own decisions and opinions and I guess some get uncomfortable when we say "you're right". I think it's okay to agree with them but I now say "I agree" rather than "you're right".
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Thank you. Maybe that is what it is. Next time I will have to ask her about it. Maybe I agree would be better.