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Originally Posted by fuzzball541
Do you ever have a hard time with eye contact? Lately, well more than a mth I haven't been able to look at my T. If I do, it's for a glance basically.
If you haven't been able to look at your T have they mentioned it or suggested how to? My T says I wish you'd look at me....it will help feeling connected.
Does it make you feel less connected?
I'm able to hug my T after sessions, well I wouldn't call them a hug, it's more of a one armed thing he supplies....never a hug hug.
Thanks!
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I struggle with eye contact, especially when we are on a particularly painful or embarrassing topic. Early on me and T decided to sit side by side. That way we can still see each other and make eye contact occasionally, but it isn't as intimidating as sitting opposite one another for the whole time.