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Old Jan 06, 2016, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Petal7 View Post
Am I being emotionally abused or over reacting?
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Originally Posted by Petal7 View Post
1) He constantly puts me down on my appearance
2) He makes comments on how stupid I've become since not working
3) His drinking has got out of Control & he's recently started attacking me, Then will call me all the names under the sun & that I'm crazy.
4) He tells his friends that I don't allow him out on boys nights out because I'm controlling when in fact it's because he gets into such a state I'm terrified of the consequences to him or the after blows if we argue.
5) He tells me that all of his friends hate me
6) He makes me question everything I do or say, second guessing myself constantly.
I think you're answering your question, except that his abusive behaviour is getting dangerously close to physical abuse (fueled by alcohol, which makes it even worse), so it's not only emotional abuse anymore.

I don't know what sort of help is available to you where you live, but you need help, and fast.

Here are some links that I hope helps you get some advice (UK):

Trafford Domestic Abuse Services
Refuge - Recognising Abuse
NHS - Getting Help For Domestic Violence

Good luck!
Thanks for this!
marmaduke