Tell him what you want him to do with you, its nice to talk about it.

My ex didnt have experience (had sex only for two times a life before me), I was really bored when we had sex because he kissed my lips for 15 minutes or even longer but I wanted him to act faster but he was really insecure. Maybe I just didnt want him, i dont know. Our temperaments were too different, he liked slowly kissing etc, but I wanted wild sex. So I cheated on him but I would suggest to talk about what you want and I think that he would like to do with you this, he doesnt know what you want, you should tell him and it will be okay