My mom and I have no relationship. She and I didn't really have a relationship in 2015. Rarely did she ever call me. It's been over a year since she's been to my apartment. She hasn't asked me anything about my new boyfriend. It's like I don't exist to her. My sister is her Golden Child her favorite. She does everything for my sister but does nothing for me. She even told me she couldn't get me a gallon of store brand milk and I should ask my Dad. Anytime I need extra groceries he gets them for me. The other day my step mom said to let her know when ever I need any and they didn't mind getting them for me.

I've learned not to ask my mom for anything. My Dad and step mom always help me when I need it. My step mom is the only mother I have. If it weren't for my step mom I would not have a mother.

My boyfriend and I have all ready from time to time talk about getting married. I told my step mom I wanted her to help me plan the wedding and I didn't want my mother there. She said I would have to do it on my Dad's tight budget since she knew my mom wouldn't give me any money if she wasn't invited. I said I would rather do it on his tight budget than invite her. All my mom would do is make me miserable and probably make me cry. Which is why I don't want her there. If it were up to my step mom I would have more spending for the wedding but it's my Dad who is tight with money. She doesn't have a daughter so I'm the only daughter she has. She often does things for me and tells me not to tell my Dad.

Should I feel guilty for not inviting my mom when she choose to kick me out of her life?