yeah good post... imo it is rape if the person it is commited to did not clearly say yes when first asked. end of. i am thinking also i may possibly shoulnt have read this post, as every time, i just noticed; i read something about rape, i get more and more scared of older people, mainly men yes cos im a girl. but i know it is not just older ppl but yeah, mainly for me as i think rape is more common amongthose who can legally do it, so yeah...
i recently had to teach a 12 yr old girl what rape was (verbally) coz she went around saying to all her friends that they were in the rape circle of trust.... god i will get so annoyed at the person who said that word around her, she was learning all these words too fast... mind u it is good she knows what it is now.
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