Yes. A man who loved and RESPECTED you would never say anything to hurt your feelings or make you feel less of a woman. Pregnancy, birth, and child rearing take a lot out of a woman. Perhaps you should start leaving him to babysit while you do your make up and go out without him. He sounds selfish. Also I don't know if you have thought of this but pornography has a tendency to make a man highly critical of his partner. I did a study on this. Maybe he's watching?? I know my own normally loving fiancé started making comments about my weight when he was watching it on a daily basis. Definitely not ok. You are a beautiful woman and if he's not happy with you sure as **** there will be another guy delighted to have you.❤️