My therapist says it is ok to cut out toxic relatives. My ex's daughter didn't want to invite her mother but was guilted in to it. Sure enough mother and her boyfriend got drunk ( before the ceremony not even wedding reception) and started embarrassing commotion with picking fights, falling down on the floor and BF running towards the altar drunk and it continued at the reception, she luckily passed out half through but he went on etc wedding was pretty much ruined. So don't invite her

But on totally different topic. Finances are a big reason for divorce so don't rush into anything. If you are having difficulty obtaining basic groceries even as cheap as milk you might have a difficult time as a couple. Make sure you two or at least one of you have stable income that allows for basics

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