Thank you everyone for your responses. I have a disability check and he works a full time job.

My Dad actually worried about my mom's feeling on not being invited. When I get married I don't think I am telling her until the wedding is over. The only one from her family I want at my wedding is my aunt and my uncle. If I invited my mom that would cause a big scene me inviting her brother and his wife. She hasn't spoken to them in nearly 10 years since their mother died. My aunt is a beautician and always cuts and styles my hair for free. I asked if she would do my hair when I get married and she said she would.

I have been seeing my boyfriend for one month. She hasn't asked me one thing about him. I told my step mom I'm not even introducing him to my mom. He met my step mom & Dad on the first date. He met my brother on the second date. The only family members I plan on inviting is my step mom & my Dad, my aunt and uncle and my brother. My boyfriend has a huge family so the guests will mainly be from his family. I'm not inviting my sisters. They never want anything to do with me.

Thank you everyone for your response now I don't feel much guilt.