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Old Jan 06, 2016, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by PandorasAquarium View Post
Anyway, is there any therapy that would say to abandon a bpd person you care about? Or is this just an excuse to get away from a person who sees right thru their facades?
I would tell someone that removing themselves from a situation with a loved one where he or she refused to get help might be the healthiest thing, and to set and maintain strong boundaries. I'd caution anyone who thought that the person had BPD that "abandonment" would likely trigger a lot more of what they didn't want happening though. It doesn't sound like they care about you very much though!
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