Two years ago before I met my ex I made it plan and clear to my mom my sister would not be invited to my wedding. Then a few months later I met my ex. We got engaged rather quickly. My mom had the nerve to ask if my sister could help at my wedding. My mom wanted to cook the food at my reception without asking me. I didn't want her cooking I wanted it catered just like she let my sister. I told her no my sister can't help. My mom said fine I will do it by my damn self then. She said it very hateful. Then she said I can have a chapel wedding and not a church wedding. In other words the only way she was giving me a church wedding was if my sister that I despise could be there. My sister is her Golden Child. My sister and I do not get along. We are to different. My sister is just like out mother. She looks and acts like her. Everyone says I look more like my father and I act more like him. My psychiatrist agreed with me that's why my mom doesn't like me. He's even told me to stay away from my mom.

When my ex and I were in Florida two years ago after getting engaged my mom tried her best to make us get married while we were in Florida with her. My mom wants to be at my wedding so badly. I just don't want her there. She's not my mother. My step mom is my mother. My Brother was real sweet he knows how much I love his mother and said he didn't mind sharing her. My brother and I have the same Dad his mom is my step mom. My step mom said my brother is more like me than our sister.