It's tough to say, without the totality of her complete picture. Mentioned is no longer drinking/self medicating, would give you the moon? Overindulge in things yet lack that deeper emotional connection, control/need to be in control--self soothing from a lack of feeling security/stability?

To emotionally detach takes a need for objective compassion. Which fluctuates between feeling sorry for with a sense of humanistic tenderness all the while maintaining your own peace of mind.

Where was she stunted in youth?


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