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Originally Posted by annabellacat
I don't think it's any of your business. Let them work it out. What's wrong with the mom providing if that's what she wants? Maybe she WANTS to do that? I can understand if it's straining you to discuss the issue a little bit in constructive ways but even still it's not right for you to force her to get a job. She also is only 21? Maybe she's still figuring herself out and what she wants to do. She is babysitting so she is trying something at least. I DO think it's a concern if they are having trouble affording their rent,though. That is an issue. Nothing wrong with having a nice apartment..but if they can't afford it,that is an issue. The car accidents thing,is also an issue,too. I can see why you have some concerns but other things,i feel you are being too controlling/nosy. If she wants to live off him,what is wrong with that? If he is ok with that,why are you judging? I think you need to be less judgemental. He does seem spoiled from what you say.I do see some issues.
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That is the whole point, We were not involved and weren't planning to be, the mother called US because she wants us to talk to them. She has been paying their rent and sending money, and she says she cant keep doing it. They CANNOT afford the rent on that place if the GF doesn't work. SS's mother said she only told them she would help until GF got working, which was supposed to be right away. That GF got a job right away was part of the deal.
GF is an adult and is mooching off of my step son. They are not married, they have no kids, she just doesn't want to work. She wants to be taken care of and he doesn't make enough money to do that. Hey, if he wanted a stay at home wife, that would be fine, but that isn't what he signed up for.