Please find a way to refrain how your speaking in plurals for your own safety. That is what I would do. It is really sad, because I denied and basically thought it was no big deal about being plural, but as soon as I got online to discuss and embrace DID and PTSD I got a plethora of situations like this....People in passing would ask who will stay with you where will this one stay, what will this one eat, who works where who is scared who is anxious. That only drove me to learn names and used them, but then it went even further to well are you a criminal now people with DID getting off with insanity pleas no one can keep up with all the names in public is your life divided with your alters name in everything you do like openly, which is a stupid question and assumption knowing there is only one social security number connected to one name, the only thing that changes in marriage is the last name on the social security card. It was very conniving and embarrassing. In my personal story, it was just another way to blame someone that was ignorant to what it even means to have DID. If you explain make sure you do it for the right reason so that singular people understand. We are not that different from a singular mind is what I subscribe to if not then people will want you to assess them, like we are in to diagnoses or something.

Kinda of like in the United States of Tara season 1 where the town seems to have know what she was and embarrassed her during that fight at her sons school. How could everyone stand back and let her switch like that!