But that's the problem she wants to live through you, eat what you eat, go where you go.
I have a friend with parents like this. They go everywhere with her, everywhere. If she doesn't want them with her they feel betrayed, hurt, rejected.
'We do everything for you, you have never gone without, how can you be sooo cruel?' they wail, tears in their eyes.
So, full of guilt she agrees to obey and puts her life on hold.
Again.
30 years old and never had a boyfriend.
To want to stymie their daughter's life like that is not about love.

It's selfish. Big time. It's narcissisum.

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