I find it very frustrating and hard to live with the fact that I´m still a virgin at 35. I feel both ashamed and sad and since I began to think about it as an issue I think about it more or less every day.

I don´t have any medical problems and no other illnessess have prevented me from having sex. But I´ve never dated and one day I just realised that I´ve missed out on this part of my life and now it feels very hard to find a way to do something about it.

I don´t want any one night stands and at the same time it feels hard to imagine being in a relationship even if I would want to in some way. I feel exceptionally unnormal and it frightens me that I´m so unexperienced. It´s also a great sorrow that I´ve lived a life completely empty of love or affection.

I´ve had a few friends and don´t consider me having a social anxiety. But still there´s something "wrong". I´m looking for a T but don´t have one at the moment so I don´t have anyone to talk to about this.