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Old Jan 06, 2016, 07:38 PM
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Just beware rushing into anything let alone relationships. Each different experience you have with someone you get to know them better & sometimes you find things that end up being huge red flags...& with someone telling you they love you all the time...it can sometimes mask some serious red flags.

I met a guy in September when I was a junior at the university...he was graduating. Things seemed ok....nice guy. It wasn't until after he graduated & we went to northern calif on a job interview that I saw red flags...personality issues....right before the wedding. I wanted to call it off....my mom talked me out of what I saw as red flags & went ahead with the wedding....HUGE MISTAKE. I ended up staying 33 years of fighting & one daughter. I finally left & looking back it was for the same reasons I saw the red flags. Just don't jump into marriage because you are desperate to have someone care about you. I wasn't desperate....realized I never did love him from the beginning because of those red flag issues.

I grew up with dysfunctional parents & had no idea what love felt or acted like at the age of 22 & being an only child had no one to discuss the dysfunction with.
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