I understand where you're coming from. I feel like my fiance complains way too much as well but then I realized is because he's been spoiled all his life so any work is the end of the world to him. It's tough for us girls who are made out of brick with our strength and don't understand oothers' weaknesses but I've just come to the realization that other ppl are not as strong as us and instead of being annoyed (or trying not to be annoyed) we have to understand that everyone is made differently and ppl handle things differently. If his complaining still annoys you, just simply tell him that it's making you upset.