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Old Jan 06, 2016, 10:20 PM
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I had a dream about my T a couple years ago, where she had me over to her house, which was this ridiculous mansion, like it had an indoor swimming pool! And she was telling me that her husband was away, so I could share the bed with her, and I was like, "Uh...I can just sleep in the guest room, that's fine!" (She's my mom's age.) I eventually told her about that, and she found it amusing.

I've had multiple dreams about my marriage counselor, for whom I've had some transference off and on. The first I had about him, before I realized that was going on, started like the morning after we'd been together, with me waking up in bed next to him and both of us naked. It felt more comforting than sexual though. And then at the next appointment with him, he was wearing a polo shirt that was completely unbuttoned, showing a bunch of his chest hair, and it was like I couldn't look at him, because that made me think of the dream!

I also had one more recently where I hugged him and was like, "Oh sorry, I shouldn't have done that," then he said it was OK and just sort of held me for a bit. Then he was massaging my shoulders. Again, it wasn't so much sexual as comforting and safe.

Oh wow, almost forgot the weirdest one! This was about when the transference was starting. I was in an episode of Law & Order: SVU, with MC as the psychologist on there. It was a case where police officers in the unit were being targeted, so they were being offered protection, like people guarding them. I was like, "What about MC?" Someone was supposedly watching him, and they thought he was asleep on the couch, but when I went to check, it was just a bunch of pillows to make it look like he was there. I freaked out, and it turned out the bad guys were holding him hostage. We managed to get him free of them, and at the end I kissed him. Again, comfort rather than sexual.

Incidentally, I told him about that dream once I shared the transference. He's pretty short for a guy, as is the guy in the role when I was watching (BD Wong). So MC was like, "Oh, sure, picture me as the short guy!" I was like, "Well, he's the psychologist! And he's kinda hot." (This was in one of our two individual sessions to address transference--didn't say that in front of my H!)

Had a couple other random ones about him, but will leave it at that.
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