I get the feeling that you assume mothers and daughters are supposed to get along? Well, that's the impression I get based on your question about why you don't get along with her. There's no real way to know why. You could honestly ask this question about anyone you don't get along with and nobody will ever be able to tell you the answer. Some people just don't get along, period. Not all parents get along with their children.

She has the power to not be alone. Is she doing anything about it? I see her as someone who pushes away her own daughter. So is she really the innocent victim in all of this? I don't think so. She's had a role in her own isolation.