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Old Jan 07, 2016, 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
She wants you to develop maternal and/or erotic transference for her? I would run, personally.

But as you seem to like her, maybe ask about this more. Including does she know how to handle transference. Or is she just trying to get you to share more information with her or cry in front of her? Sharing information is one thing if it's something you need help with, but I don't understand why a good number of therapists seem to think clients should cry in front of them as part of the process.
Lol, I understand about running ... At that very moment when she said that I may have considered booking the hell outta there! But because I trust her I didn't . Can she handle the transference? Yes, I'm pretty sure she's well equipped to handle it. I don't think she just wants me to full on cry but she knows that I hold stuff inside, she is trying to get me to get it out .. She really encourages me to do the body work, bioenergetics however I'm not always receptive to that either. Yes, I'm a tough cookie and resistant!
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