I think that perhaps you aren't clear on what "trauma work" is. Trauma work isn't just getting into the details of what happened to you. Its a lot more than that. I suggest that you ask your T what she means by "trauma work" as she is the only one who can give you the answer you're looking for. If you aren't comfortable with her response, let her know. She may discuss moving slower with you so that things are at a pace that you're ok with.