I don't think we will break up soon. I was simply just venting online. After I wrote that I did talk with him for over an hour and he said he didn't realize he was doing it. I feel like I do have compassion but everyone has their breaking point. I guess I was looking for support or a sympathetic ear. Maybe I expect too much? Now I feel like a jerk.

In response to me turning down his help...I don't know why I turn it down. Bc I know he's been super busy and id rather he relax than have to vacuum or whatever. I know it sounds passive aggressive. Like I want him to help but I'm not taking him up on his offer.

Just kind of came to a head with me last night. Sorry if you think of me as rude, lacking compassion or on the verge of a breakup. Not how I intended to come across or how I perceived my reaction to his complaining.