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Originally Posted by JaneTennison1
To be clear, I'm not saying you have to get rid of T, just what life would be like without this obsession over what T thinks or is doing. It's so wonderful to realise how much actually doesn't need to be said (although it feels urgent) you are so deep entrenched in this therapy that I wondered how life would feel without that obsessive intensity. You deserve good things and checking back into life might be one of those good things.
At some point this T may change boundaries again and I wonder how you will feel?
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I agree I obsess about my T but I am definitely checked into life. I don't want to be specific but I am involved in many activities in addition to my painting. I'm very busy and have friends to do these activities with. I don't sit at home and think about therapy all the time! If T changes the boundaries, I'd be upset but I'm sure we would talk about it this time. I know I want to tell her everything, but I think that's because in my past, I kept all of my feelings inside. It's such a relief to have a T who truly makes me feel comfortable talking.