I have another stance on this. There may be a perfectly legit reason the GF doesn't work. There may be the chance she can't. Perhaps she might actually want to desperately but that she has limitations of her own. Could it be possible she has depression or anxiety issues of her own that prevent holding down a job?

I myself can't work and nothing makes me angrier than to hear people infer I don't wish to.

I realize the majority of people out there make the rather negative assumption I am lazy and would rather sponge off the system than get a job.