It's not wrong to date older guys but what you are doing doesn't sound like dating. It is dangerous.

I would be careful sexting people you barely know as it could be used against you, it could be printed out or posted somewhere. If you like the guy go on dates. Different city and jobs shouldn't stop him from taking you out. You can meet half way and keep dates short. Fiancée and I lived 50 miles apart and I work two jobs and he works nights and overtime and our jobs are demanding yet we dated. It wasn't easy to arrange dates but we did. 3 months before even having sex.

We are living together now but it's very recent, after engagement. To all honesty we never even send sexual texts as someone might come across them. We work the type of jobs that if someone comes across such things we would be in major trouble.

I worry that you aren't being careful. If he has time to sext he has time to go out for a walk or a meal or s movie whatever you guys like

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