That makes it two of us

Do you work? Travel? Go to places? In order to meet someone you have to be proactive. It is not very likely to meet someone if you isolate yourself.

It also depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for somebody to spend your life with (which I guess you do) it might be a huge challenge. If you would settle for something less - that's much easier.

And it depends on how you treat people. I have a friend who is my age and she has the same problem as you. She's not a bad looking (kind of cute I would say) but she has this dark outlook on life. When people try to approach her she turns into a spiky ball like a hedgehog because she has trust issues and is too afraid to get hurt.