Looks like you gave her the power in her accusation about declaring that you can control the emotions of others such as the feeling of misery. From this vantage point sounds like she believes you have a magic feelings wand. [emoji624] much like a fairy godmother of feelings.

If your husband has control over the money promised to her, defer away.

Where's her pension? And other retirement benefits? Shouldn't her budget be fixed, at this point? Automatic monthly bill payments. Grocery store gift cards only?

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