that would be horrible JS. I like that with my t, we sit at the same level. her chair is not above the couch. and when i sat on the floor, she did too. i want to sit on the floor saturday. of co urse i want ot do a sand tray one of these days again and for that i won't be sittting i stand to do those i hope she won't mind that i want to talk while i'm doing the sand tray used to be in the old days before she moved i would like mumble to myself while doin sand trays but this time i want to talk to her while i'm creating.