biiv thank you and it is much appreciated. I was able to speak with my nephew for a couple of minutes today. he is so afraid. they are putting him in another hospital today. his burns need attention and they need to check his organs for damage. he is going to lose the thumb. I am a wreck with worry not being able to be there. it is always harder to sit home not knowing what is going on than being there...thanks again for the thoughts and prayers.