This might sound rough and im really sorry but at the end of the day its her problem to deal with, even though its really heartbreaking. Just the same way we tell a therapist something they help you deal with your problem and they go home and relax. My doctor has cancer but he still takes care of all his patients too but there is nothing that we can do. Each person just has to deal with their own stuff I guess, I am sorry if I sound like a but*hole but that's just the way I think. What does everyone else think?