I have had a few but two of them really stick out in my mind. The first one was after being afraid for so long that she was going to abandon me for having to many needs she showed me that she has my best interest at heart and that she is not going to do that. The second one was after she and I had said "I love you" I had wanted to hear it all the time. I could hear her say it in my head in her comforting voice. I then realized that I had her love and care internalized. I have never been able to internalize anyones love or care before. She taught me that and its one of the best most biggest things I have learned in therapy.
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