Yes,indeed he is a jerk. i don't know why i glossed over the bad signs. Now all the bad things keep coming to mind. I guess because all i've ever known is guys who are jerks. In person when we met,and then our date later on,he seemed so normal in person. It's like it's pretty much just in text,he seems like a jerk. I just don't get what happened but I shouldn't overanalyze,it is pointless.