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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
Can you share what he was hiding? Everyone deserves privacy, even in a relationship. Just because you feel comfortable sharing something doesn't mean that your partner feels comfortable sharing the same thing. Without knowing specifics its hard to say one way or the other as there are certain things that are very important to share in a relationship while other things are OK to be kept private from your partner.
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He was hiding that he was seeing a psychiatrist while I was fully disclosing to him that I was seeing one. This isn't the first time he's his something from me, but this one was particularly offensive to me because I had fully disclosed to him. I am trying to bring the relationship to a place of balance and I don't know what that is. I've never done this before. My last partner would never see a psychiatrist . I think it's great my partner is seeing a psychiatrist and I want to encourage that. What I don't want to keep doing is sharing my personal business with him thinking all is equal when it's not. Does that make sense?