I am sorry you are hurting.
You are better off. But I know it hurts.

It doesn't mean he found anybody. Or that he did not have somebody all this time and was just playing with you . He did pursue but not in a decent way. Yeah if he wanted to date he would arrange nice date long time ago. I've learned that if a guy pursues you it doesn't mean necessarily that he is a nice guy or that he is even interested in a relationship. He could be s jerk or a player or who knows.

I once had a man pursue me for a long time while it turned out he had a long term girlfriend the whole entire time. Luckily I didn't get involved. But I couldn't comprehend why would he constantly asked to date me?

My therapist says it's pointless trying to figure out what people do and why as you might never know the answer.

It is better to figure out why you do what you do. Like finding out why you attract jerks. Or why everyone you meet is self absorbed and superficial and is a cheater ( from your other thread) and why do you think it's ok to be surrounded by these people? Why your standards are low? I myself went for unavailable guys for years! Therapy helped me to learn and grow. Are you in therapy?

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