Agree with all that has been said...the judge will keep him in line...only thing I would want to know before going is what your state says are grounds for divorce...my state is no fault...so even if my former spouse wanted to stop it she couldn't...

Google away...state laws on divorce can be a bit tricky to get to with all the different what I call "sale" sites...

If you need help PM me your state...I've done it a bit now for others...I'm actually getting good at finding that boring language...