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I cannot really reason with her.
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I think that the idea of radical acceptance here is that you don't try to reason with her, you simply
accept how she is.
Instead of trying to change her,
you try to change yourself.
Why would you do this?
You might reason as follows:
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I miss her. I feel guilty about our relationship. But I can't reason with her, and I can't change other people anyways. I can only change myself.
How could I change myself? Well, right now, I get upset with her and I don't act as I wish with her. Why do I get upset? Because she treats me like a child, she wants to know about everything and intervene in everything. I can't stand it!
But what if I could accept her as she is? What if I don't have to be be offended? What if I learned to think like this:
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Ah, there you go again, intervening. That's just you! But I love you anyways, so I am not going to engage. I will let it go.
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What could I actually say though? Hmm, maybe I could kindly say "I see your point." "I will think about what you said." "You always care so much about me." "That is an interesting perspective." "I have a friend who does it that way." "I will consider what you said." "I never looked at it that way before." Something courteous but noncommittal.
I don't know if this would work, but I am willing to give it a try. If nothing else, I can lessen my guilt by trying. And maybe our relationship will change for the better! 
But there is no way that I can spend a week with her! She will drive me crazy! I definitely don't have that kind of patience.
Hmm, maybe I should visit shorter, like two days, and see how things go under my new approach. And when I am there, take a few walks on my own!
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