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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am just trying to understand as I can relate to feeling betrayed or people hiding things as I had bad experiences too. Sometimes it's just a gut feeling. I had people hiding things too. Very frustrating
I just wonder if you two don't live together, him spending money can't be that big of a problem? Are you planning on combining finances? Do you feel he needed to tell you he consults a doctor over the phone? I personally don't feel like this is violation of trust the way some other things are. I call my gyn over the phone and never thought my fiancée would care? He calls his doctor about this or that. It doesn't bother me.
Well we live together so not many secrets there, but phone consultations are just so mundane IMHO .
I do understand violation of trust though as a concept. I just tend to get dramatically upset over minor things and wonder if it might be the case? I would hate you to end a relationship over this if he has good explanation .
I would try to press him to share why is he not sharing
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Actually, he's planning on marrying me, so it does matter in that regard, as it cost him $2K and I told him that would not work once we got married.
He calls his psychiatrist over the phone because his psychiatrist lives in my state, not his state. So its not a phone consultant, its an actual session. I just won't disclose my appointments to him anymore. Its that simple. That equalizes the relationship. What do you think?