It is a process. It will take time to become part of his lifestyle and he will fight it. Just keep up your good attitude and get on with your life. You made the greatest speach there. I love the whole boat analogy. Stay strong, be patient and don't let him pull out of his agreement. You are too cool.
Carrie

<font color=green>Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door.--Emily Dickenson