I'm sharing this in the event that it will be helpful, not to be hurtful.
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Originally Posted by Only_Human1983
I just hope I find someone in time to have children.
...the thought of never knowing what it's like to carry my child for 9 months, experience birth...
...and trying on that dress that makes you feel like a million dollars, that special day etc,
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As a man, and a prospective husband, each of these lines would make me run for the hills. Each would make me feel as if I were a means to an end. You seem to me to be in love with the
idea of marriage, motherhood, giving birth, having a wedding, etc., but it seems to be focused very heavily on you. You need a man to make each of these come true for you - but seem less interested in the man himself. As if, any man will do as long as I get this stuff - even narcissistic ex-boyfriends.