You know I've had guys tell me they love me I'm beautiful, all they were after was my parents money. I've been married and divorced 3 times from all these men who so loved me. Not one actually did love me, they wanted something from me. None of them stood by me, took care of me during pregnancy or delivery, etc. Not one man has done good by me. I so longed for one true love, the con got into my life and really drug me down so far I didn't think I could survive it, but HA I am surviving it. LOVE IS A LIE, make a friend, marry someone who really does care about you. My good friend once wanted to marry me, but that's lost. Now I'm forever alone, and well I'm going to figure out how to make my best life. I'm 41.