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Originally Posted by divine1966
I kind of disagree that isn't her business. It could become her business if her husband starts contributing their money or worse they come live with dad and stepmom!
That what happened with my ex catering to his failure to launch nightmare adult daughter! Contributed to demise of our life together. Fast forward she still lives with him and he is miserable as she is a total nightmare but I moved on to happy life.
Failure to launch adult kids could create all kind of troubles to a couple
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You raise a good point, and I absolutely agree with you, in that regard. I was basing what I said on the premise that this step-son is already launched and unlikely to try and move in with her and her husband. (But you never know.) It was sounding to me like he soaks his mother, but has been unable to get his father into that position. (But you never know.)
Like with her husband selling the car: She might have a reasonable basis to object to that, if the car were very valuable, or they were in tough straights, financially. However, if she and her husband are okay, financially, and this car is not a Lamborghini, then she would be ever so wise to stay completely out of that transaction.
Congratulations on the way things turned out for you. Sounds like you made a wise decision to exit an irrepairably dysfunctional family situation.