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Yagr, no I'm certainly not saying any man will do,
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Good, I was secretly concerned for you.
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... but I would like to find love and to share moments with that person.
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A completely human desire.
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However, nobody seems to want that with me and what sort of a person does that make me?
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Well, nobody yet.
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I would never and have never said all this to guys. Of course I have said that id one day like to get married and have children, but isn't that fairly normal???
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It is certainly normal.
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I haven't pushed any of it on guys, but perhaps they pick up on it without me knowing. I'm just scared of ending up alone ...
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This is my best guess, from someone who doesn't know you so take it with a grain of salt. I think it would be very difficult for someone who is so worried about this issue to not project their fears and feelings of both inadequacy and borderline desperation onto prospective suitors. I honestly believe that the moment you become okay with never finding what you seek, it'll show up.
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I guess it's why I'm so worried because I know I mess everything up, as you said you would run, so thats why everyone else has and I'm unlikely to find what I would love being how I am
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There is a book I would recommend, but even if you aren't interested in the book, consider the title for a moment. It is, "Be the person you want to find." by Cheri Huber.