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Old Jan 08, 2016, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by yagr View Post
This is my best guess, from someone who doesn't know you so take it with a grain of salt. I think it would be very difficult for someone who is so worried about this issue to not project their fears and feelings of both inadequacy and borderline desperation onto prospective suitors. I honestly believe that the moment you become okay with never finding what you seek, it'll show up .

I understand what you're saying, but how do I stop wanting to find love, have a family etc. That's incredibly difficult. If I come to terms with the fact I'll be alone forever, that would make me pretty depressed (more than I already am)

I will definitely read that book, thank you. I have read a lot of self help books about relationships to help me since I broke up with my ex, but I've failed so far

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