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I really am not sure why she told me she was still single.
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Um, because she is interested in you?
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I don't want to tell my wife this time as I think she'll think i'm crazy. Why is this woman still in my head! I'm still thinking these thoughts!
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You have not been obsessing over her for five years. You ran into her and that contact rekindled the infatuation. I see that as completely understandable. You wife understood last time, is there any reason to think that she won't understand this time?
Keeping it from your wife keeps the whole thing underground and creates a separation between you and her. Now you have something to hide.
My suggestion is to give serious consideration to telling your wife.