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Originally Posted by divine1966
He was still deciding?
If he planned on having a date this weekend it would be already done. It's Saturday and already weekend.
Don't know if he is a jerk. But he doesn't sound interested. If a man only contacts you in response to your texts ( middle of the night?), and doesn't initiate anything and still didn't decide on a date even though you keep asking, then sure sign he isn't too interested.
Some men are shy and some might be intimidated, my fiancée is shy so understand that but I bet this guy has no real interest in getting to know you/dating. If he didn't want fancy ( and why go fancy if you two don't know each other yet?) he could suggest coffee place. Or he could call. And he doesn't. Heck he went to a movie with someone so he could suggest that with you ( not the best for early dates but better than nothing). Anything. Or just call to ask how you are doing.
Does he expect you to be ready last minute? I am extremely busy. If I don't have a date planned like a week ahead of time or I'll have something else that day. Don't sit around waiting for him.
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Well,we planned for friday and i told him i had it in my book and the plan was for drinks so it wasn't like i was waiting for everything. I do believe he had trouble deciding a place. I think he was distant after we confirmed plans because he thinks we fight a lot in text so he wanted to try and keep a distance until we hung out in person. I do know he prefers last minute plans whereas I prefer things more planned out because of my anxiety condition. He drove his bike all the way to me neighborhood which is a bit far,so it was nice to see a guy do that.