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Old Jan 09, 2016, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by marmaduke View Post
It's not about being a '*****' really it's about respect. Expecting respect and not being a doormat.

But *****es do get men easy. They play them. Just like so many women are attracted to a bad boy.

My niece is I suppose what you would call a 'femme fatale'
She is attractive, flirty and can mesmerise men.
She is classical NPD, dramatic demanding, materialistic, gregarious, manipulating and utterly charming when she wants something.

Her now husband who seems a regular kinda guy is besotted with her. He would never tolerate a word said against her yet she is draining him dry.
She abandoned two young children.
The daughter who does live with her suffer from low self esteem and depression. And yet describes her mother as 'amazing' and 'wonderful'

Annoying that men cannot see beyond a pretty face.
But then narcs/psychopath can have a magnetism about them.

Oh.
It's all SOOO unfair.

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I used to kind of think this way until I started therapy and my t convinced me its all wrong. She was right. Same as emotionally healthy men do not want b... Healthy women don't want bad boys. I do not want to play anybody and I don't. I am happy as is. You can demand respect and not be a b....no need to play games

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Thanks for this!
yagr